Obsolete Religion

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Isaiah 40: 8  The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of our God stands forever.

Church life has changed dramatically from when my grandmother attended church, to me growing up in the church, to my daughter’s church experiences.

I have a young coworker who is planning a fall wedding. She is furious at the process of securing a priest to perform their ceremony. Early on they were asked to pay hundreds of dollars for a priest along with hundreds of dollars to attend a mandatory wedding retreat. Now the original priest is unable to be at the wedding, so they were asked to pay two hundred more dollars to secure the second priest. She is angry with the process and she is angry at the church. Instead of her church embracing this new couple with love, they are pushing them away.

A friend told me this week that when he visited Europe, the people there refer to religion as “something we used to do”. What? The European churches are becoming European museums. The trends from Europe usually find their way to the USA. Is this a trend that we will see in our country? Will organized religion become something our grandchildren will read about in history books?

We need a religion revival in our world. The church may look different for our children, but God’s word will stand forever. Let’s share it with the youth in our lives. Don’t let religion become obsolete.

March Madness

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Proverbs 23:18  There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.

Is your bracket busted? Our family loves basketball. Every year, we all fill out our bracket and donate $1 in the Playter March Madness pool. It is funny how when I am filling out my bracket, I am pretty sure this is the year I will have chosen all the winning teams. And now, not even through the first weekend, my bracket is busted!

No one can predict the future. No matter how hard we study the science or statistics, only God knows what the future holds.

They play the game because we never know who will come out victorious. In life, we do not know what the future holds, but we do know who comes out victorious. (Spoiler alert – God wins!) It feels great to be on a winning team – God’s team.

Traffic Jam

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Matthew 7:13-14  Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.

Driving through a city, especially during rush hour, makes me incredibly anxious. Yesterday I attended a knitting retreat in the Northeast Arts District, requiring me to drive downtown Minneapolis. Driving in traffic does strengthen my prayer life! I arrived an hour before the event began (better safe than stuck in traffic) and continued reading The Book of Joy. In the book, the author Douglas Abrams was riding with  Archbishop Desmond Tutu when he asked how all his spiritual practices and beliefs affected his day-to-day interactions, like driving in traffic. This is how the Archbishop responded:

All of a sudden a car cut across the lanes in from to us and the Archbishop had to swerve out of the way to avoid hitting the other car. “There are some truly amazing drivers on the road!”, the Archbishop said with exasperation and a head-shaking chuckle. I asked him what went through his head at moments like this, and he said that perhaps the driver was on his way to the hospital because his wife was giving birth, or a relative was sick. There it was. He reacted with the inevitable and uncontrollable surprise, which is one of our instinctual responses, but then instead of taking the low road of anger, he took the high road of humor, acceptance, and even compassion. And it was gone no fuming, no lingering frustration, no raised blood pressure.

May you take the high road as you travel down life’s roads.

 

 

Embrace the Season

Ecclesiastes 3:1  There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven.

Friday while attending a dark sky compliance presentation, I met a college student from LA. She chose to attend a college in Minnesota because she “wanted to experience seasons”. She went on to explain in-depth the beauty of each season, including Minnesota winters.

Look for the beauty in every season of life. Slow down enough to fully live in the season you have been given. What is God saying to you? How can you glorify God in this season of life? How can you live each season to its fullest? Life is always changing. God is molding you as you move through this season into the next.

In this winter season that never seems to end, I need to make an effort to embrace winter activities. Last week I went ice skating. I haven’t skated since our kids were young. It felt amazing to be on the ice. Although, I will never be an Olympic skater, I did manage to stay upright….. and that was a win!

How will you embrace your season of life? May you find joy in everyday, not because life is always good, but because God is.

Worship

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John 4:19-24  “Sir,” the woman said, “I can see that you are a prophet. Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem.”       Jesus declared, “Believe me, woman, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. Yet a time is coming and has now come in spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in spirit and in truth.” 

To worship means to revel in the enjoyment of someone or something we love. Everyone worships. The question is…… who or what do we worship?

Social media knows what we worship. As you check your social media feeds, what type of ads pop up? Look at your calendar. Where are you spending the majority of your time?

Worship is so much more than time we spend in church on Sunday mornings. Take a hard look at your worship routine. The Father loves you and is seeking you to worship Him daily.

Hope

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Isaiah 40:31 Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles. they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. 

It is official – Snowfall records were set in Minnesota for the most snow received in February, EVER! Governor Walz declared a State of Emergency in Steele and Freeborn Counties last night. Heavy snow and winds have reportedly stranded motorists in the area. The Minnesota National Guard is being activated to assist with search and rescue operations. Armories in Albert Lea and Owatonna are being opened to serve as shelters. Today we are under a blizzard warning, closing churches throughout the area. Winters in Minnesota are long. It is easy to fall into depression and loose hope.

Where does your hope come from? Placing our hope in the Lord makes us strong. Hope gives us the desire to continue moving forward, even when the roads are closed.

May God grant you strength to endure the winter seasons in your life. Hold on, because spring is just around the corner!

Voice

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Psalm 29:3-9  The voice of the Lord is over the waters; the God of glory thunders, the Lord thunders over the mighty waters. The voice of the Lord is powerful; the voice of the Lord is majestic. The voice of the Lord breaks the cedars; the Lord breaks in pieces the cedars of Lebanon. He makes Lebanon skip like a calf, Sirion like a young wild ox. The voice of the Lord strikes with flashes of lightening. The voice of the Lord shakes the desert; the Lord shakes the Desert of Kadesh. The voice of the Lord twists the oaks and strips the forest bare. And in his temple all cry, “Glory!” 

Last week I spoke about the importance of sharing your faith story with your family and friends at a retreat in Minnesota. As the day approached, I was becoming more and more anxious to speak in a room full of women. So, I enlisted my faith sisters to pray over my insecurities to let God’s voice be heard. God is good. Through the prayers, He taught me that my faith is bigger than my fears. I was able to make it through my presentation without looking at my notes too often. Later in the day, I had a lady tell me that she battled breast cancer ten years ago. She began writing letters to her two boys, but just couldn’t finish them. She was going to leave the retreat and complete the letters to her sons that evening. Another lady was contemplating starting a blog. She told me that as she listened she could feel God pushing her towards launching that blog. God is good! He used my simple words to reach these women.

With all the noise in the world, make your words count. How will you allow the voice of God to be heard through the words speak?

Love Letters

Letters

1 Corinthians 13:1-7   If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes always preserves. 

I love receiving letters in the mail. It began when I was young. My grandmother sent me weekly handwritten letters updating me on the events happening in her life, two states away.  She encouraged me as a newly married woman and inspired me to love unconditionally. I looked forward to her letters and my heart would leap when her beautiful envelopes would arrive in my mailbox.

I followed Grandma’s example. Every week my children received a handwritten love letter when they were away at college. I updated them on local news, encouraged them and most importantly, I let them know that they are loved unconditionally.

The Bible is God’s letter to you. He has so much to tell you – so much advise – so much encouragement – so much unconditional love!  Love is mentioned 310 times in the King James version of the Bible. 131 times in the Old Testament and 179 times in the New Testament.

Thursday is Valentine’s Day. Hand write a love letter to someone special in your life. It will mean more than any store-bought card or box of chocolates.  However you celebrate, know that you are loved by an amazing God.

1 Corinthians 13:8-13  Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain; faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. 

Write Your Story

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Deuteronomy 4:9-10  Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them slip from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.

Write your story for your children and grandchildren. You have a unique story that only you can tell. Be your authentic self as you share words of wisdom, stories of success and areas of failure along your faith journey.

Moses encouraged his people to remember what God had done for them, to share their story with their children. This is how people learned about our great God. God’s story is not complete yet, because you are a part of God’s story.

Continue God’s story as you share your faith journey with your children. Include the miracles you have seen first had as God has worked in your life. Let your children know that they are loved by their heavenly father, and by you!

God bless you as you begin writing your story.

Choose Life

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Luke 1:41-42 When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. In a loud voice she exclaimed: “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the child you will bear!”

Choose Life – Mary had an unplanned pregnancy, but she chose life! I was an unplanned pregnancy, but my mom chose life! I struggled with infertility, but God chose life (3 times)! Your mother chose life! When legislators are making poor choices regarding abortion,  you can continue to make the right choice – Choose Life.

I love knitting and designing knit patterns. I felt this was a good week to share with my readers a pattern I designed for little ones.

The Remington Hat was conceived out of love for my nephew and his wife who, after struggling with infertility for several years, were blessed with a beautiful their baby boy, Remington. While searching for the perfect hat to knit for this precious little one, the only hats I liked were for baby girls that I liked. So, I designed a hat fitting for our new special bundle of joy. I hope you enjoy the hat as much as Remington and his parents do.

 

THE REMINGTON HAT

Finished Size = Baby (toddler, child)

Finished Measurements =  13” (14”, 16”) relaxed around brim.

Yarn = Cascade Venezia Sport (307.5 yards [281.25 meters] / 100 grams): 1 skein.

Shown in color #130.

Needles = One 16” or 40cm circular needle size US 5 (3.75mm).

One set of five double-pointed needles size US 5 (3.75mm).

Change needle size if necessary to obtain the correct gauge.

Notions = Yarn needle, scissors, stitch marker.

Gauge = 22 stitches and 30 rows = 4 inches in stockinette stitch

 

Knit Hat – Using circular needle, CO (cast on) 80 stitches. Join for working in the round being careful not to twist, and place marker to indicate the beginning of the round. Work in rib pattern (k2, p2) until the hat measures 2” (5cm) from CO edge. Work in St st (knit all stitches every round) until the piece measures 4 ½” (11cm) from CO edge.

Begin Decrease – decrease for the crown as follows, changing to double-pointed needles when there are too few sts to fit comfortably around the circular needle:

Round 1: *K8, k2tog, repeat from * to end. (72 sts)

Round 2 & 3: Knit.

Round 4: *K7, k2tog, repeat from* to end. (64 sts)

Rounds 5 & 6: Knit.

Round 7: *K6, k2tog, repeat from * to end. (56 sts)

Rounds 8 & 9: Knit.

Round 10: *K5, k2tog, repeat from * to end. (48 sts)

Rounds 11, 13, 15 & 17: Knit.

Round 12: *K4, k2tog, repeat from * to end. (40 sts)

Round 14: *K3, k2tog, repeat form * to end. (32 sts)

Round 16: *K2, k2tog, repeat from * to end. (24 sts)

Round 18: *K1, k2tog, repeat from * to end. (16 sts)

Round 19: K2tog around. (8 sts)

Finishing – Break yarn, leaving a 6” (15cm) tail. With tail threaded on a yarn needle, draw tail through remaining sts and pull snugly to close top of hat. Take tail to inside of hat and fasten securely. Weave in ends.

Optional Pompom – A pompom can be added easily to the Remington Hat with the leftover yarn from your skein.

Cut a strip of stiff cardboard half the width of your desired finished pompom. Cut a notch in each short end to secure the yarn. Wrap the yarn around the cardboard strip many times. The more wraps, the fluffier your pompom will be. Cut a length of yarn about 6” (15cm) longer than the width of your wraps and thread it on a yarn needle. Slip the needle underneath the wrapped strands along one long end of the cardboard and pull through, leaving about 3” (7.5cm) hanging out at each side. Tie the ends of the strand snugly into a single knot and hold or ask a volunteer to place a helpful index finger on the knot for a moment. Cut the wraps along opposite long edge of the cardboard. Pull the knot very tight, and finish with another single knot to make a square knot. Fluff up the pompom and trim the ends.

 

Pattern Abbreviations

CO cast on

K knit

K2tog knit two stitches together

P purl

sts stitches

St st stockinette stitch; knit all rounds